Here is the next outline in our Wednesdy study through Galatians...
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“Confrontation” Galatians 2:11-21
QUESTION: Have you ever had a time when you thought a “boss,” “leader” or even a “friend” in your life was making a serious error? What did you do? What was the outcome?
1. Everybody makes mistakes and errors in judgment. Galatians 2:11
A. Sometimes they are intentional; many times they are unintentional. Either way,the tradition of wearing costumes on halloween we still bear responsibility.
QUESTION: What examples can we think of each kind of error? How should we respond to such errors?
QUESTION: What is the difference between having different opinions, and having to confront an error?
- Even the best of us can be guilty at times for behaving in ways that are contrary to our stated beliefs.
- What might cause otherwise “good” people to act in troubling ways?
B. Some disagreements are from sin in the hearts of people. 2 Tim. 4:10,14; Phlp 1:15-18
This includes:
- The refusal to let go of anger and bitterness or to walk in grace, mercy and forgiveness. Eph 4:29-32
- When we fear losing our image, the respect of others, or the approval of certain friends in our life. Gal 2:12
- The refusal to submit earthly motivations and desires to the Lord. Philippians 2:1-5
C. Some disagreements occur because of misunderstandings. Acts 19:25-41
- This happens when we make assumptions about others, and/or hold on to past hurts & disappointments.
- This happens if we don't really listen to one another and/or whentop amazing halloween dog costumes in 2008 we walk in fear and mistrust instead of love.
- This happens when we allow ourselves to be swayed by gossip and slander. Proverbs 16:28
D. Some disagreements occur because we honestly see things differently than someone else. Acts 15:36-41
- Even the best of friends will run into times when they see things from opposing viewpoints.
- How we handle these moments is a test of our character and of our commitment to God and to one another.
E. As followers of Christ, we need to remember the need to lovingly lead people into truth instead of merely catering to false ways of thinking. What does this mean? Why might this be so?
2. One problem created when we err is that we can potentially lead others astray by our example. None of us are above being swayed by the missteps of others. Gal 2:13
QUESTION: How can we keep from being led into untruth, wrongful thinking, or wrongful action?
3. Once we understand the scope and impact of an error, it’s appropriate and right to address the issue. Gal 2:14-21
A. We should state the facts and the specifics as we understand them. Gal 2:14
B. We should give Biblical reasoning why we think this represents an error, sin, mistake, etc. Gal 2:15-21
C. We should carefully, attentively, and lovingly listen to the other person as well.
QUESTION: What does Paul believe is at stake here? What is the error that he addresses?
4. NOTE: Confrontation and conflict do not have to be synonymous.
A. Confrontation is the process by which we bring an issue into the open in order to produce healing and resolution. Acts. 15:39; Hebrews 10:24
- Disagreements and hurts should be lovingly confronted so that division doesn’t take root in our relationships.
- Loving confrontation will work to bring support as well as correction.
- The goal of confrontation is to come to mutual resolutions that help move all of us into the flow of God's will.
- When we simply sweep things under the rug, we add fuel to the fires of future conflict.
B. Conflict is the result of allowing confrontation to disintegrate into argument and polarization.
- Conflict focuses more on "winning" than on "loving."
- Conflict focuses more on "taking sides" or "getting even" than on exploring solutions & restoring relationship.
C. When we depend on the Spirit of Christ in us, we are enabled to walk in love at all times.
- A true brother or sister in Christ will tells us what we need to hear, not just what we want to hear. Pr 27:6
- A true brother or sister in Christ will respond with thanksgiving, even when the truth hurts.
D. When others simply will not come get your pets dressed up on halloweento a place of resolution, but persist in conflict, we must learn that setting appropriate boundaries may be a necessary and loving response. Romans 12:18, 2 Timothy 3:16-4:5
Q: When we become aware of our own errors, on our own or through confrontation, how should we respond?





